Filmmaker John Papola's documentary "To My Father" showcases the inspiring relationship between Oscar-winning actor Troy Kotsur and his police officer father, Leonard. This poignant film highlights Leonard's unwavering belief in his son's abilities, despite Troy being deaf, and the profound impact this had on Kotsur's life and career.
Papola, founder of Emergent Order Foundation and host of "Dad Saves America," emphasizes the vital role fathers play, a role he believes is often underappreciated in modern society. He aims to redefine the narrative around fatherhood, moving away from negative stereotypes and highlighting the heroic aspects of being a dad.
The documentary "To My Father" premiered at the Tribeca Film Festival. It tells the story of how Leonard Kotsur's support and encouragement empowered Troy to overcome the challenges of growing up deaf in Mesa, Arizona. Leonard's love and acceptance were instrumental in shaping Troy's self-belief and resilience.
Papola argues that society's current view of masculinity often undermines the importance of fathers. He points to the alarming statistic that nearly 20 million American children are growing up without a father figure, highlighting the negative consequences this can have, including increased risks of substance abuse, criminal activity, and teenage pregnancy.
The film recounts an anecdote where a young Troy asks his father why he is deaf. Leonard’s response, emphasizing God's plan and the importance of searching for meaning in life, underscores the profound influence he had on his son's worldview.
Papola, a former creative executive in New York City, credits the birth of his son with transforming his perspective on life and work. He found newfound freedom and purpose in fatherhood, which allowed him to take more risks in his career.
Leonard Kotsur's dedication to his son extended beyond personal support. He learned sign language, coached Troy's baseball team, and even established a soccer team for deaf children in the Phoenix area, creating a vital support network for families facing similar challenges.
Even after a tragic car accident left him paralyzed and unable to sign, Leonard continued to inspire his son. Troy Kotsur’s moving Oscar acceptance speech, where he acknowledged his father as his hero, is a testament to the enduring power of a father’s love.
Papola's work aims to champion the importance of fatherhood and encourage a more positive and supportive societal view of dads.
